It Takes All Kinds: Mapping The Breastfeeding Baby
As a mother of three and having breastfed for oh, about 47 months total, and still counting, I can honestly say that no breastfeeding baby has the same style. Breastfeeding is a relationship that builds and grows and changes, as the baby's needs change. So what kinds of breastfed babies have you seen?
1) The Connoisseur: a gourmand that simply adores your yummy milk, this baby sees you as food first, and boy, are you delicious. The Connoisseur will nurse noisily, making many yummy, "umm" sounds. A true connoisseur will also lick his lips when you walk into sight.
2) The DJ: This baby loves rhythm and she will slap and drum your breast in time to any sound. She will kick and dance with her little feet. The DJ also loves to “tune the radio” (play with your other nipple) as she nurses.
3) The Comedian: Avoid too much eye contact with this little one as he will crack up with laughter and crack you up. The comedian loves a good joke and will happily grin at you around a milky nipple. So be willing to re-latch... often!
4) The Scientist: This little one sees nursing as an opportunity to closely study the human subject that provides her with food. The Scientist will take a close and studious look at your skin, hair, eyes, up your nose and at her own hands. She is ever learning.
5) The Little Monkey: The Little Monkey is in touch with his primate side. He clings to your shoulder, skin and hair. He loves to curl his monkey toes into your body, and loves to be carried. The Little Monkey will happily nurse in any position, because he is built to cling.
6) The Super Star: The Super Star sees nursing as a wonderful show. She enjoys it so much, she wants to share it with the world. She will not stand for any kind of blanket or shawl covering her up, and she'll just complain if you try. The Super Star loves to sing and dance as she nurses and will hum and kick. Relax and enjoy the show!
Every baby and every mom is a different creature. Find a way to enjoy your nursing relationship. Find the beauty and humour in your shared experience. She'll grow up faster that you'd expect. Treasure this time for the magical time that it is.
copyright 2006 Sarah Hilbert-West www.birthwares.com
